09 November 2011
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If you've moved around enough you're likely to have come across the dreaded nosy neighbor. From the pathological to the occasionally annoying they're out there - lurking in your driveway, peering over the wall, staring through the windows and accosting you when they can to probe with questions and innuendo. You can tolerate the pain only to pass it on with a move from your house or you can get proactive and try a few tricks to reduce interaction and limit visibility. You may yet have the chance to enjoy that quiet cup of coffee in your backyard. From How to Get Rid of Nosy Neighbors, howtogetridofstuff.com, Feb 9, 2009:
We all want to be friendly with our neighbors, but we also need our privacy. Some neighbors may be too friendly to the point that they start to become pesky, nosy, and far too friendly for your taste. They may start to spread gossip, bad rumors, or talk about your private life in public. Or maybe they just peer over the fence or the hedge and watch every move you and your family makes. Here are some ways to get rid of your nosy neighbors.
Why Are Some Neighbors Nosy?
Before you do anything serious or drastic, you first need to know why your neighbors are so nosy. Here are some common reasons:
- Jealousy. Maybe you live next door to a family of limited financial means, and your neighbors may be jealous of your lifestyle. They may be very nosy and check out your new home entertainment system, your new car, or the swimming pool in your backyard.
- Perversion. You may have a neighbor who is strongly attracted or even lustful after some of your more attractive family members, or may even be attracted to you.
- Idleness. It's often said that the idle mind is a boiling pot of evil thoughts. A neighbor of yours may not have much to do, so he or she may just look out the window or peer over your fence just to pass the time. Worse, this neighbor of yours may just have enough time to spread irrelevant facts or even rumors about you.
And while there are classic nightmare neighbors - Kramer on Seinfeld, Gladys Kravitz on Bewitched - the most penetratingly evil has to be Hyacinth Bucket in the great British comedy Keeping up Appearances. Snobbish, dictatorial, grating and so utterly clueless she drove everyone around her to tears from husband to neighbors alike. So deal with your pain and maybe use a few tricks from this article but understand - it could be much worse!